It is a general consensus that things in life aren’t black and white.  No- we instead often refer to the grey area, that area in the middle, to explain things.  We like to say things like “The truth often lies somewhere inbetween” or “There is a happy medium” or “Let’s split the difference”.  I understand that to a degree.  I suppose in a way we live in a grey world.  Calling it grey takes into account all the many variables.  I suppose it also gives us breathing room to explain what is often hard to explain or define.  So I guess I’m fine with it.